Someone once said “No money no honey”. When you have money your wife calls you honey. When you don’t have money your wife does not call you honey. Money is a determinant of the love temperature in most relationships. Men, it’s good to have good money. If you don’t have money don’t go into a relationship yet. Build the money pipes first. This is so to avoid embarrassment from your wife. She may love you but the lack of funds to meet her needs will make her not to value the love you once shared.[adToAppearHere]
Women need not just want their husbands to have money. When he pays the bills for all that is needed, yes! He is the man. When he does not, in most cases all the times he foots the bills will be forgotten and he will be told you never did anything. If he does not have money they withdraw and tend to show their true colour, their true character. Why are women that way? Perhaps, they are made to be at the receiving end with the notion that the man is the bread winner. So, whether he has or not that’s his problem. Whether he suffers a setback he should be man enough to go on without them even if they could help.
About 60% of some ladies interviewed said they lose interest in broke men because they lash out at them. 32% said a man is supposed to provide while 7% said the man become a loser when he struggles financially. The 60% category said the man will refuse their help when they try to help and even lash out at them. The man feels ashamed. The man feels he is supposed to do what the woman wants to do for him and in the process they talk at the women. These factors depend on the underlying relationship. If there is proper understanding friction will be minimal. Who has will not matter. Whoever has, it belongs to the union! Is that true?
A man stated that his wife always monitors his movement. She wants to track his movement. She even asked the husband to send a screen shot of himself where he was at the particular time she called him. Some even video called their husbands to be sure of who he is with and where. Is that necessary? A poll response of some selected women (70%) showed that they needed to know where their man was and what he was doing in order to approve of what he was doing. 24% said they don’t trust their husbands while another 6% said they liked details because that’s how they are built.
A woman in the 70% category said her husband does silly things if left alone. For instance, she said he bought what she described as a toy with a large sum of money. At another time he almost got fired at work because he went late. He went late because he was somewhere he ought not to be the previous weekend. She said many men she got close to never made the right decision alone. Men and women, is this true? Drop your comments in the comment section below…